Do you often wonder why you seem to repeatedly attract the wrong people in relationships? For example, you may believe that you treat people right in general, and you are a pretty good catch, but it seems that your partners don’t treat you like the prize you are. They may cheat on you, use you, abuse you, and meanwhile you wonder why you keep ending up in bad situations with bad people. The answer is, you need deliverance.
One obvious place to look is clearing out all the baggage from your past relationships. You need to do a spiritual cleanup to break soul ties with every person you have been intimately and physically connected to so that you are free to be in your new relationship without remnants of the last person or people interfering and influencing your decisions.
The second place you should look is your seeds. Our words and actions are seeds. What we invest our time, money, and energy into are seeds. Think about how a seed produces a plant but that plant produces much fruit if it is cultivated properly. What kind of relationship seeds have you personally planted and cultivated in your life? What kind of fruit are you seeing in your relationships? If you have sown some bad seeds, you may be getting some rotten fruit. From the sinful seeds you plant, you reap a harvest of destruction. From the Godly seeds you plant, you reap a harvest of prosperity.
Then, when desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, brings forth death.
James 1:15 New King James Version (NKJV)
Here is a list of a few bad relationship seeds; perhaps you have more that you can add to this list. Consider whether you have planted and cultivated any of these seeds in your life and if it is possible that you are reaping the consequences today – whether you have previously repented or not. If so and you want to be free, you are eligible for deliverance.
1. Manipulation/Control – getting someone to do what you want by different means such as flattery, guilt, deception, or abuse
2. Lying/Deceitfulness
3. Flirting – flattery with intent to seduce or manipulate someone into giving you attention or anything else
4. Infidelity – emotionally or physically being unfaithful to God or your partner, or in other relationships
5. Abuse – verbal, physical, mental
6. Shutting Down – withholding communication or affection
7. Fantasy – being fixated on an unrealistic image or portrayal of relationship, including lusting after individuals and pornography
If you have engaged in any of these practices and haven’t repented, you have opened yourself to receive a harvest of multiplied destruction in the area of relationships. The great and wonderful thing is that you can be delivered from the effects of sin today! If you are truly repentant and you want to be free from the consequences of sin, take action today for your total deliverance. Confess your sin, repent, determine not to sin in those ways anymore, and ask the Lord to restore you. Break your agreements with the enemy which indicated that you wanted to reap more of those sinful behaviors that you previously engaged in. Get an experienced deliverance minister to agree with you in prayer today. Contact Zari Banks at www.zwriteswords.org and pick up resources from Linda Dominique Grosvenor-Holland at http://www.lindadominiquegrosvenor.com/books/.
Love and Blessings,
Rachel
